Stop Judging!!

How often do you judge people around you?

How often you start judging them, the second they leave your place? How usually you start making stories about them, by the way, they were responding, talking, and letting you know what there thought process is?

In my personal experience, I have learned that everyone has a story to tell, what you are today says a lot about your past, your childhood, your native place, your upbringing.

As a human, we need to understand; instead of what, we should focus on why! 

Why is someone behaving weirdly? Why do they have a negative thought process? There could be a reason why they stopped expressing themselves? 

You can't give your opinion on someone you don't know about; what they are today, what they have gone through in the past.

Trust me; when you allow yourself to hear the story of a person, you will feel more connected and will never be judgmental after hearing them. 

Be someone who can help in the growth of the other one. Growing mentally & Spiritually is everything!!

Living beyond limits; Restart from where you are!

How often do you feel that you are stuck? And think that nothing is going as per your plan? How many times do you think that you need a push to restart your life? How many times do you think that you don't want to try anymore?

It is a common attribute of being human. Where we feel depressed if something doesn't work out as per our expectations and we feel like doing nothing, we want to be there for some time & feel that failure from the bottom of our heart. It's good to feel everything deeply and need not forget that the rest of your life is still there to live.

We give our attention to some incidences of our life where we feel that this is the end, nothing is going to work out, and your life has paused, your dreams have shattered, and you are lost.
I have recently watched a video of a brave lady who is not only bold, smart but also a courageous one. She is Amy Purdy-  https://tinyurl.com/wjxyqxx. 

She was diagnosed with a rare disease called "Meningitis," a rare bacterial infection where her chances of survival were meager, she lost her both legs because of that infection. She uses to do Snowboarding. After losing her legs, she lost her confidence, her courage, her dreams, her passion, and her motive to live her life. She stopped meeting people and start talking negatively about herself. Self-talks creates more impact rather than hearing something wrong about yourself from someone else.

Her dreams were to travel the world, Snowboarding, participate in competitions, and had a vision of becoming the champion. All the goals were in the paused state. She was going through emotional trauma, and one day she decided to face it and accept her life's situation the way it is. The day her perception towards her conditions changed, it started motivating her to do more and more for herself, her dreams, and her passion.

Her parents helped her in the installation of her artificial legs; she embraced that by saying that- She could be tall, She could be short according to the guys she is dating. Her attitude towards life was making herself happy no matter how hard the situation gets; she wanted to face it gracefully.
She started practicing Snowboarding with her new legs, She was going through the pain, but she had the thought of reaching her goal of becoming a champion in Snowboarding always there to overcome her anxiety. She practiced, she was consistent, She was positive about achieving her desires, and one day she became a professional snowboarder and won 2 world cup gold medals and became the first female snowboarder. She started a nonprofit organization for disabled people who can participate in action sports.

Her Story inspires us in many ways and tells us:

• Your current situation is not defining your whole life
•  Your Dreams are not beyond your limit if you don't limit yourself
•  Every Circumstance of your life, push you to become a different and stronger person than     before
• Take it and accept it the way your life give you the challenges
•  When feeling stuck, try harder to get out from that situation
• Accept the changes gracefully

It's when!

when you take me to the places,I always wanted to go.
when you came for a walk and we talked about everything.
when you wanted to hold my hand and wanted to say a lot but stayed quiet.
when you made me feel so comfortable.
when you never wanted to hurt me.
when you always thought about me before taking any decisions.
when you made me feel special by the way you treat me.
when you wanted to listen an old song with me.
when you wanted to sing for me.
when you gave your time to me.                                                     
when you laugh on my silly jokes.
when you wanted to know about my day.                                 
when you always wanted to stay.
when you discussed about your passion & dreams with the sparkle on your eyes.
when you  never wanted to express through words but through actions.
when you say you don't want to listen anything but still I felt heard.

Its when I fell in Love with you.

Being VULNERABLE is not a Taboo!

We always taught from the childhood that you have to be strong but nobody tell us that crying,

feeling pain is ok, it's not something which makes you weak but it is something which makes you Human.

You are allow to have fun,you are allow to Cry, you are allow to shout, you are allow to do whatever you feel like doing.This is your life, the fear of being judged will always be there but you have to think is this fear making you a strong person by just pretending that you are strong, or is this making you the weakest.

Expressing and feeling Vulnerable once in a while is completely a normal human behaviour, you can be vulnerable in front of your closed ones without the fear of being judged, when you feel heard you will more relaxed, more happier, and could most happiest feeling.

Being heard without judgment is the feeling of peace,feeling of satisfaction and complete happiness.It's very easy to ask someone to say what they are feeling but the most hardest part is to allow yourself to speak what you are feeling inside.

You are allow to break this silence, you are allow to be vulnerable,you are allow to feel broken, you are allow to feel shattered and the most important you are allow to be "YOU".

You have TIME, is a "MYTH"

You Never know what can life brings in front of you, sometimes it is good and sometimes it is worst.

You never know when is the last time and when is the first time you are going to meet someone which can change your life.

You Never know how strong you are untill and unless you go through something which is beyond your imagination.

You Never know how God has chosen you for something which was never in your plan,but still you accepted it so gracefully.

You Never know what life can give you today, after a week,after a month or after a year,give your best wherever you are,enjoy every moment.

You Never know how unplanned roads gives you a wake-up call to do more and complete your Destination.

My life,My destiny!

Sometimes when I look my life,I feel amazed, it is not less than a roller coaster ride, sometimes fast sometimes slow,but at the end is always smoother than the starting.
I do not have any words to express and describe my life experiences,they are alot from worst to excellent. I am just grateful for everything whatever happened,whatever is happening, whatever will happen, everything is in my favour.Somehow universe talks to me and tells me about my path, which can be right for me and which can not be.It's just all about the chances I took in my life,and here

 I am😊😊

Allow your heart to speak!

I am not frustrated, I am actually feeling good because I accepted the fact that I love you.I can hide this from everyone but I cannot hide this truth from myself.When I see myself in the mirror every day, I questioned myself then I got an answer that I am in love with you. I love you in a way which I never felt for anyone before, you are the best feeling I have ever felt, it seems like a long path which I need to cross to be with you but it is worthy if at the end of the day you are by my side.

My intuitions belong to you, my gut feeling always take me back to you no matter what the situation is, no matter what the situation was, no matter how much I have gone through, no matter how much ignorance I have felt, just a thought of having you in my life is what comfort me.

I crave for you for your presence, I crave for your voice, I crave to be with you, talking to you about the things which happened and which will going to happen certainly.

Sometimes it’s just ok to let your heart speak about all the heartache you have ever felt from the ignorance of your loved once, from the absence of your closed ones in your life.

Sometimes it’s ok to cry hard and to discuss about it.Sometimes it’s ok to make sometime for the things which should be on your priority list.Let’s talk and start something new.